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Designer Relationships

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Designer relationships may encompass people who bond emotionally but not sexually, people who agree to be non-exclusive, single people who have occasional lovers or friends with benefits, multiple partner configurations where long-term bonds exist among all or some, partnerships in which people are kinky and that make room to explore kink.

The possibilities are limitless, and thinking about a partnership as something people can craft allows for flexibility and change. Relationships can open and close or have varying degrees and kinds of openness as circumstances demand. In the context of a designer relationship, decisions are made mutually, consciously, and deliberately.

Best-selling authors and nationally known relationship experts Patricia Johnson and Mark A. Michaels are exemplars of this life choice, and have studied polyamory for over 20 years. This book explains exactly how you and your loved ones can design your own life and love.

About the Author

Internationally known and widely quoted as experts, Michaels and Johnson are the authors of Partners in Passion, as well as Great Sex Made Simple, Tantra for Erotic Empowerment, and The Essence of Tantric Sexuality. Their books have garnered numerous awards: Independent Publishing (IPPY), ForeWord Reviews/IndieFab, and USA Book News Best Books, among others. They co-founded Pleasure Salon in 2007 to support New York's sex and pleasure positive community.

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Customer Reviews (4.5 / 5 · 2 reviews)

Ryan ★★★★★

For a book that rethinks the basics of connection, the way it tackles emotional intimacy without demanding a sexual component really made me stop and think. I appreciate how it gives language to the different arrangements I've navigated, like friends with benefits. It’s rare to find a guide that nor

Natalie ★★★★☆

I found the concept of non-exclusive agreements refreshing, though I wish the book had more concrete examples of how to navigate those conversations. It’s a quick read that made me rethink what I want from my relationships.