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Polysecure provides non-monogamous folks with an incredibly helpful set of tools to navigate the complexities of multiple loving relationships, and offers radical new concepts that are sure to influence the conversation about attachment theory.

Attachment theory has entered the mainstream, but most discussions focus on how we can cultivate secure monogamous relationships. What if you’re striving for secure, happy attachments with more than one partner?

Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern breaks new ground by extending attachment theory into the realm of consensual non-monogamy. Using her nested model of attachment and trauma, she expands our understanding of how emotional experiences can influence our relationships. Then, she sets out six specific strategies to help you move toward secure attachments in your multiple relationships.

Paperback, 268 pages.

About the Author

Jessica Fern is a psychotherapist, public speaker and trauma and relationship expert. In her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples and people in multiple-partner relationships who no longer want to be limited by their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles and past traumas, helping them to embody new possibilities in life and love.

Customer Reviews (3.0 / 5 · 2 reviews)

Emma ★★★☆☆

Some of the attachment theory concepts felt a bit academic and took me a while to get through, but the practical worksheets at the end of each chapter were genuinely useful for my partners and me.

Harper ★★★☆☆

The attachment-based framework in here is genuinely thought-provoking and gives you a fresh way to look at your relationships, but the writing gets pretty dense in the middle sections and I found myself re-reading paragraphs. It’s a solid read if you’re already deep into polyamory, though I wouldn’t