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Rainbow Parenting: Your Guide to Raising Queer Kids and Their Allies

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Rainbow Parenting is an indispensable stepping stone for adults who want to raise and teach kids in a queer and gender-affirming way, but might not know how. Lindz Amer, the creator of Queer Kid Stuff, an award-winning LGBTQ+ educational webseries for children and families, is an expert guide, leading readers through practical applications, important LGBTQ+ history, key lessons in intersectionality, pronouns, social justice, and more. Divided by sections that address kids' individual ages—from infancy to kindergarten—this joyful and approachable book shares a bit of hope and starts with the understanding that anyone can spread queer joy.

By giving parents and their kids a vocabulary to express themselves, Rainbow Parenting ultimately aims to create more empathetic adults—and spreads a message of radical acceptance in a world where it's sometimes dangerous to just be yourself.

"An incredibly thoughtful and comprehensive guide focused on awareness and action. Throughout the book, Lindz balances what we need to know and what we can do as caregivers." ―Britt Hawthorne, author of Raising Antiracist Children: A Practical Parenting Guide

“Rainbow Parenting is infused with love on every page. No matter where folks are at on understanding the queerness spectrum and LGBTQ+ worlds, this profoundly accessible guidebook will meet all with kindness, humour, and care. Lindz Amer’s nuanced understanding (both lived and researched) about the worlds of (queer) children will open up many joy-filled pathways for adults to concretely support and affirm the kiddos in their life more, engendering safety, justice, and thriving for everyone!”
―carla joy bergman, editor of Trust Kids and co-author of Joyful Militancy

About the Author:

Lindz Amer (they/them) makes queer stuff for kids and families. They started on this wild and winding career path when they created Queer Kid Stuff―an award-winning original LGBTQ+ educational webseries for all ages―that has reached millions of families. They perform at libraries, schools, and theaters all over the world spreading queer joy and working on numerous projects that bring queer and trans representation into mainstream children's media. In 2019, they gave a viral TED Talk on the importance of talking to kids about gender and sexuality. They currently write for preschool television and also host the parenting podcast Rainbow Parenting, as well as Activist, You! for kids featuring interviews with youth activists. Their work has been featured by Good Morning America, Kidscreen, Teen Vogue, and Parents Magazine. They live in New England with their wife and spunky cattle dog mix named Georgie.

Customer Reviews (4.6 / 5 · 5 reviews)

Matthew S. ★★★★★

I grabbed this after realizing I had no idea how to explain gender identity to my five-year-old, and the age-by-age scripts made it feel doable instead of terrifying. The section on being an ally to other kids' families was a bonus I didn't know I needed.

George T. ★★★★★

The sample conversation scripts for different ages were a lifesaver—I finally feel equipped to answer my kid's questions without stumbling over my words.

Madison D. ★★★★★

I was nervous about freezing up when my five-year-old asks why his friend has two moms, and this book gave me actual words instead of panic. The section on answering questions simply and honestly was the part I've already reread twice. It's the kind of guide you keep on the kitchen counter, not the