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Sex Without Roles: Transcending Gender Zine

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How much of your sex life is informed by gender norms that you may not even be conscious of? Eli Sachse’s zine is all about learning to explore your sexuality in a healthier way, with great boundaries and consent.

These concepts apply whether by yourself, with strangers, or with trusted others.

This zine is a thoughtful friend with good advice, helpful phrases ("No, thank you," is a favorite), and a nonjudgmental perspective of having been there and done all those things. The zine is especially written for people who are exploring their gender identity or beginning to transition. Additionally, it's also valuable reading for anyone who wants to be a better sexual partner to themselves and others.

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Customer Reviews (4.5 / 5 · 2 reviews)

Grace G. ★★★★★

The section on setting boundaries during intimacy was exactly the kind of practical advice I’ve been craving—it’s helped me communicate better with my partner. I’ve already reread parts of it twice because the ideas feel so fresh and applicable.

Avery P. ★★★★☆

I’ve been unlearning a lot of assumptions about intimacy, and this zine’s breakdown of gendered scripts felt really practical. The part about noticing your own “shoulds” in the moment was a lightbulb moment for me. Only wish it had a few more concrete exercises to try.