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The Loving Dominant

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Previous editions of The Loving Dominant taught more than 50,000 people the fundamentals of safe, affectionate dominance and submisison.

Now John and Libby Warren, two of the scene’s most respected educators, have updated this seminal work for a new generation of pratitioners.

Includes an all-new chapter on partner-finding, plus new information on electricity play, ethical play with multiple partners, watersports, kinky digital photography, and so much more!

265 Pages

John and Libby Warren are Co-Founders of the Boston Dungeon Society. Additonally, they are national speakers on BDSM and alternative sexualities. They live in Delray Beach, Florida.

Customer Reviews (4.7 / 5 · 3 reviews)

Sofia M. ★★★★★

Finally, a BDSM book that treats submission as something precious rather than just a kink. The way the Warrens explain aftercare and negotiation makes it feel approachable even for complete beginners. It's quickly become my go-to reference for building trust with a new partner.

Ruby C. ★★★★★

Bought this for my partner and me after years of fumbling through things on our own, and the chapters on negotiation and aftercare alone were worth it. It's written with real warmth instead of the cold textbook tone I expected, which made it easy to actually talk about.

Hannah E. ★★★★☆

I was a bit skeptical at first, but the authors’ approach to blending clear guidance with emotional safety really stood out. The way they frame respect and communication as core to dominance makes this feel practical rather than preachy. It’s a solid read for anyone curious about the lifestyle.