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Tie Me Up: The Complete Guide to Bondage

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Tie Me Up is about bondage for everybody: Stephan Niederwieser’s relaxed style and focus on pleasure are the perfect combination for this introduction to bondage, a book that’s sure to benefit both the rank beginner and the experienced practitioner.

Here you’ll find everything you need to know about the most important toys and accessories, about different kinds of knots and how to tie them securely.

You’ll find all the tools you need to let go of your inhibitions and get the biggest bang from your bondage experience.

About the Author

Stephan Niederwieser is the bestselling author of several sex guides and five novels, including Tie Me Up: The Complete Guide to Bondage. He studied German language and literature, is trained as a natural healer and psychotherapist, and conducts family constellation workshops. He lives in Berlin, Germany. Available in English are his sex guides Bend Over! The Complete Guide to Anal Sex, Blow Me! The Complete Guide to Oral Sex and Do It Yourself! The Complete Guide to Masturbation.

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Customer Reviews (4.8 / 5 · 5 reviews)

Alexander F. ★★★★★

I expected a dry manual but this reads more like a friendly conversation, which made the whole thing way less intimidating. The sections on safety and communication alone were worth it for a total beginner like me.

Sofia A. ★★★★★

The relaxed, pleasure-focused tone made this way less intimidating than other guides I've flipped through. The section on basic knots was clear enough that we tried a couple the same night, no fuss.

Julian Z. ★★★★★

The step-by-step photos finally made rope feel approachable instead of intimidating, and I loved how the author keeps emphasizing pleasure over perfection. My partner and I worked through the first few chapters together on a lazy Sunday and both felt more confident by the end of it.