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UnF*ck Your Boundaries

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Boundaries are the ways we communicate our needs.

They are what allow us to feel safe among strangers, in everyday interactions, and in our closest relationships. When we have healthy boundaries, we have a strong foundation in an uncertain world. And when someone crosses your boundaries, or you cross someone else’s, the results range from unsettling to catastrophic.

In this book, bestselling author Dr. Faith Harper offers a full understanding of issues of boundaries and consent, how we can communicate and listen more effectively, and how to survive and move on from situations where our boundaries are violated. Along the way, you’ll learn when and how to effectively say “no” (and “yes”), troubleshoot conflict, recognize abuse, and respect your own and others’ boundaries like a pro.

This began as a zine, then was heavily edited to become a mere chapter in Unf*ck Your Intimacy. Finally, it became the full-size book we have available to us today.

For a deeper dive into how to UnFuck your Boundaries, check out the companion UnF*ck Your Boundaries Workbook!

190 Pages. Paperback.

Faith G. Harper, PhD, is a bad-ass, funny lady with a PhD. She's a licensed professional counselor, board supervisor, and certified sexologist. Additionally, Dr. Harper is an applied clinical nutritionist with a private practice and consulting business in San Antonio, TX. She has been an adjunct professor and a TEDx presenter, and proudly identifies as a woman of color and uppity intersectional feminist. Dr. Harper is the author of the book UnFuck Your Brain and many other popular zines and books on subjects such as anxiety, depression, and grief. She is available as a public speaker and for corporate and clinical trainings.

Like this book? Check out more works by Dr. Faith!

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Customer Reviews (4.5 / 5 · 2 reviews)

Benjamin G. ★★★★★

I've been working through the prompts about setting boundaries with strangers and it's already shifting how I handle crowded spaces. The way it breaks down feeling safe in everyday interactions is practical and not preachy at all.

Evelyn ★★★★☆

The exercises on communicating needs are really practical—I’ve already used one with a friend. I just wish the book went a bit deeper into handling pushback after setting a boundary. Still, it’s a solid starting point for anyone who feels overwhelmed by people-pleasing.