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UnF*ck Your Intimacy

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New from Faith G. Harper, Ph.D, author of UnF*ck Your Brain, comes UnF*ck Your Intimacy: Using Science for Better Relationships, Sex, and Dating.

Use this book to help you explore your relationships and sexuality, with yourself and with others. With science and humor, Dr. Faith demystifies topics such as consent, shame, kink, orientation, and trauma recovery.

For more tools, try the UnF*ck Your Intimacy Workbook.

Love differently. Because rules are for games.

Written particularly for people who are in intimate relationships, but also incredibly useful if you're single or dating and trying to unpack your past or plan for your future. Contains many exercises and questions to think, talk, or write about, on your own or with a partner.

Read this book to learn vital life skills like listening to your body and your gut, setting boundaries, and communicating your needs. If you're looking to heal from past wounds, make better choices, or improve an existing relationship, this book is for you. Better sex and relationships are totally possible! You've got this.

This book speaks to so many of the possible ways of being intimate with yourself and others. Whether you're queer, straight, trans, ace, demi, aro, are dealing with past abuse or societal bullshit, or have no freaking clue what's going on with you yet, Dr. Faith's got you covered.

Purchase the companion workbook as well for extra exercises & tools to help you UnFuck Your Intimacy.

Faith G. Harper, PhD, is a bad-ass, funny lady with a PhD. She's a licensed professional counselor, board supervisor, and certified sexologist. Additionally, Dr. Harper is an applied clinical nutritionist with a private practice and consulting business in San Antonio, TX. She has been an adjunct professor and a TEDx presenter, and proudly identifies as a woman of color and uppity intersectional feminist. Dr. Harper is the author of the book UnFuck Your Brain and many other popular zines and books on subjects such as anxiety, depression, and grief. She is available as a public speaker and for corporate and clinical trainings.

Like this book? Check out more works by Dr. Faith!

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Customer Reviews (5.0 / 5 · 3 reviews)

Olivia ★★★★★

I wasn't sure what to expect, but the science-based approach to navigating tricky conversations about sex and dating really clicked for me. The section on communicating boundaries felt practical and immediately useful.

Robert ★★★★★

The exercises on attachment styles are already helping me communicate better with my partner, and the science-backed approach makes the advice feel practical rather than preachy.

Harper B. ★★★★★

I've read her other book and this one hits the same tone — blunt, funny, and actually backed by research instead of vague advice. The chapters on attachment styles gave me language for stuff I've been circling for years, and the exercises are short enough to actually do.