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What's Your Pronoun? Beyond He & She

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Addressing one of the most pressing cultural questions of our generation, Dennis Baron reveals the untold story of how we got from he and she to zie and hir and singular-they.

Like trigger warnings and gender-neutral bathrooms, pronouns are sparking a national debate, prompting new policies in schools, workplaces, even prisons, about what pronouns to use. Colleges ask students to declare their pronouns along with their majors; corporate conferences print name tags with space to add pronouns; email signatures sport pronouns along with names and titles.

Far more than a by-product of the culture wars, gender-neutral pronouns are, however, nothing new. Pioneering linguist Dennis Baron puts them in historical context, noting that Shakespeare used singular-they; women invoked the generic use of he to assert the right to vote (while those opposed to women’s rights invoked the same word to assert that he did not include she); and people have been coining new gender pronouns, not just hir and zie, for centuries.

What's Your Pronoun?: Beyond He & She. Features 20 black-and-white illustrations. Hardcover. 304 pages.

Based on Baron’s own empirical research, What’s Your Pronoun? chronicles the story of the role pronouns have played―and continue to play―in establishing both our rights and our identities. It is an essential work in understanding how twenty-first-century culture has evolved.

“Based on decades of research, Baron’s masterly work documents the historical and continued importance of personal pronouns. Those interested in gender politics or English grammar, or who feel that 'he' and 'she' are inadequate, would benefit greatly from perusing this book.” - Ahliah Bratzler, Library Journal

“Controversies over gender-neutral pronouns, in which language becomes the surrogate for addressing deep social questions, have been going on for centuries. What’s Your Pronoun? is the most authoritative treatment to date of these issues, and should be required reading for anyone interested in the linguistic expression of gender.”
- Geoff Nunberg, UC Berkeley, and commentator on Fresh Air

Dennis Baron professor emeritus of English and linguistics at the University of Illinois, has long been a national commentator on language issues, from the Washington Post to NPR and CNN. A recent Guggenheim Fellow, he lives in Champaign, Illinois.

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Customer Reviews (4.8 / 5 · 5 reviews)

Brian ★★★★★

Baron digs into the history of singular-they in a way that finally made the grammar arguments click for me. I expected a dry academic slog but ended up reading the chapter on zie and hir twice.

Emily N. ★★★★★

I picked this up just to learn more about singular-they, but Baron's deep dive into centuries of pronoun debates kept me hooked from the first chapter. The way he traces actual usage through letters, lawsuits, and dictionaries makes the whole topic feel urgent and alive.

Jason ★★★★★

I've been arguing with friends about singular they for years, so the chapter tracing it back centuries was genuinely useful. Baron doesn't push an agenda, he just shows how the grammar fights keep repeating.